9 Mushy Ways to Pamper Your BFF After She Gets Hitched

By Divya Arora .

The one thing that gets us women way too excited and going berserk basically is our best friends getting married. We all have been there when we can’t stop jumping, literally clapping our hands, gasping and going “oh my god, I can’t believe this.” Don’t worry if you haven’t been there ‘cuz you’d be there too, and when you do, make sure that for as happy as you’d be, you make your bride-to-be bestie feel equally special and loved because after all, she deserves it, right?

Now, if you’re wondering how you can make your bridey bff feel special, a little chilled out amidst all those wedding preps and adored, we’ve got your back. Down here, we’ve listed a few delightful and adorable things that you can do for your sissy missy once she gets engaged or her wedding gets fixed.

So go spoil your darling!

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1. Gift her a customized hamper

Is your bestie a travel freak? Or is she a makeup hoarder or maybe loves to binge eat desserts or splurge way too much on skin care or read books?! Well, one of the best ways to make her happy and excited is by getting her a hamper made with stuff that she would love and actually use. A makeup hamper, stationery & books hamper, a travel goodie hampers or simply a mix of everything, the choices are endless.

2. DIY her a gift

Nothing speaks about feelings more than a handmade gift or a handwritten letter. It’s somehow one of the purest ways of showing your love so don’t think twice before doing this. Make her a photobook of the memories you’ve made together, bake her some tasty and healthy snacks, DIY a jar of handwritten notes or write a letter; there’s literally so much you can do to make her feel special and loved to bits.

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3. Plan a vacation

Be it a quick weekend getaway to some nearby hills or beaches or an exotic vacation to a fancy destination, plan a small vacay with her right before she walks into her marital bliss. Get on that adventure finally that you have been planning with her since ages.

4. Relaxing spa session

You know how taxing and tiresome the entire wedding planning journey is and it would leave her all stressed and worked up. Take her to an aromatic spa session to help her ease up and feel pampered. Head out to a chiller lunch or dinner later to simply unwind.

5. Throw her a bachelorette

You can never go wrong with this one tbh. Be it a bachelorette party in the town itself or planning a trip altogether, get along with the rest of her friends and plan a surprise bachelorette for her. To make it more special for her, have it themed around her favorite series, movie, book, or a location. Oh, and don’t forget a naughty and notorious cake.

6. Help with wedding shopping

Being her best friend, you’re probably already aware of her choices, likes, and dislikes. So go help her out and make that wedding shopping blissful, research on the latest trends for her and do some of her wedding planning tasks by yourself to take that load off her.

7. Plan her a surprise date with her man

Amidst all the hustle and bustle of wedding preparations, we’re sure it must be getting hard for your bub to spend some quality time with him. Which is why this is the perfect mushy thing you can do for her. Book a private place and get it a little decorated if you want. Get her dressed up in her best and then surprise her with a warm and cozy date with her man. She wouldn’t be able to thank you enough for this, believe us.

8. Plan a sleepover or a girl’s night

Girl’s night or sleepovers are the “real shiz” for that matter. Be it going out and partying or simply binge eating and watching your favorite movies or series at home, when it comes to an all girl’s night, everything works.

9. Be there for her

This is the most heartfelt thing you can do for her. Be it her discussing the wedding shenanigans, asking for your help, wanting to spend some time with you or simply ranting about stuff, she’s going to need her bff big time. So make sure you’re there for her—all ears with suggestions and advises, loads of hugs and kisses, and maybe some wine or tequila (they’re saviors after all).

About The Author

Divya Arora

A classic blend of old school and modern glam, I'm always happily making the best of both worlds. Zentangling, reading, and journaling keeps my ingenuity high while hogging food and dozing off often comes naturally to me! Also, chai❤️️ Find me on Insta at @divya.arora14